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10 Mindful Minutes

June 6, 2017 in Educate Yourself

We previously posted about mindfulness.  However, as we start into summer, we thought we could use a small reminder (it’s only 10 minutes!) about ways to practice mindfulness over the extremely busy upcoming months.  And what’s truly great is mindfulness can really be practiced anywhere!

Have you ever tried mindfulness mediation? What was your experiences? Would you be interested in trying something like this? How could you incorporate this into your life?

Smiling Mind App Review

May 26, 2017 in LINKS

Photo Credit: Smiling Mind

Photo Credit: Smiling Mind

The Smiling Mind app is a free app for iOS and Android that has meditation exercises geared for age groups! We think this is really cool because meditation for a 10 year old is not the same as for a 19 year old or 26 year old or even a 50 year old.

When you download the app you can sign up with your email or sign in with your Facebook account. Once you pick your age range then you can begin the “programs” that are pre-set in the system.

After your session with the app checks in with “how you are feeling now” to help you track what meditations work best for you.

Overall we think this app is really useful and accessible.

Let us know what you think! Did you download and try the app? Do you use another app? What do you prefer? 

Why I Stopped Self Harming

May 10, 2017 in Educate Yourself

Trigger Warning: Self Harm 

I recently found this article called 8 Brutally Honest Reasons I’ve Stopped Self-Harming and I found it to be very interesting and honest. Self Harm is something that many adolescents struggle with daily and it’s not easy to overcome.

One way to change the behavior is to turn it into something else; one suggestion I saw was to use a sharpie or a washable marker to draw or doodle on your body instead of cutting, which could turn into drawing in a special notepad. Both of which are safer and healthier than cutting.

Did you read the article? What are your thoughts? Have you self harmed? What other coping strategies could you use or suggest to someone struggling with this?

If you or someone you know needs help, please visit the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. You can also reach the Crisis Text Line by texting “START” to 741-741. Head here for a list of crisis centers around the world.

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Making Stress Your Friend

May 3, 2017 in Educate Yourself

This video has some surprising information that we found to be really interesting! It’s 14 minutes long, but fun and interesting!  How do you think about stress? Did this video change your views a little bit?

What do you think?

Self Evaluator Assessment Tool

April 28, 2017 in LINKS

The Self Evaluator tool is a Project of the Jed Foundation and was developed for ULifeline by Duke University School of Medicine.

It screens for thirteen of the most common mental health conditions that college students face. This screening does not provide a diagnosis, but identifies problems that could be impacting thoughts, feelings and behaviors. The screening process also provides information on these conditions and how to reach out for help. 

This tool was created for college students and we think it is super useful!

In it you will… 

  • Answer the survey with answers: Yes, No, Unsure 

Then …

  • It will briefly give a simple screening of something that you MAY have
  • Then a link that gives more information on what you MAY have

There is also an Ask the Experts Tab with FAQ about certain topics – simply use the drop down menu to choose a topic area.

 

Do you think this screening tool is useful? Did you complete the survey? Do you think that being able to get a sense of what may be happening with you and what to expect would be good? How as the FAQ/Ask the Experts information? 

Worry Stones

April 25, 2017 in Educate Yourself

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Photo Credit: feenylime via Compfight cc

Have you heard of “worry stones” before?  A worry stone is a stone that you can carry in your pocket (or anywhere on you) that can be useful in helping to relieve anxiety or other negative feelings. Worry stones are also know as palm stones or thumb stones and are smooth, polished gemstones, usually in the shape of an oval with a thumb-sized indentation. They are usually a about the size of a 1/2 dollar coin and are easily hidden in your hand.

They are often used by holding the stone between your fingers and thumb and gently rubbing your thumb back and forth across the stone. This action can be very grounding and comforting. Also the act of self-soothing can be very empowering! It is often the smallest objects and actions that have the most powerful effects.

Worry stones come in many colors and can be found from many sources. There are gemstone stores and Etsy sells worry stones for under $5.

Do you think a worry stone may help you? Do you have one already? Do you do anything similar to cope? Tell us about your experience or if you’d like to share a coping mechanism to your tool box! 

How To Use Empathy

April 14, 2017 in LINKS

This video was based on a TED talk by Dr. Brené Brown. She is a research professor at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work. She has spent more than a decade studying vulnerability, courage, worthiness, and shame.

Have you been on both sides of the hole? Have you ever climbed down with a friend?

How did this video make you feel? What kinds of changes did it make you want to make in your life? Or did it remind you of something you or someone else went through? Share below.

What is Therapy?

March 8, 2017 in Educate Yourself

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Jessica C. Levenson, Ph.D., University of Pittsburgh

We spoke to Dr. Jessica Levenson who works at the Sleep Medicine Program at the University of Pittsburgh. Dr. Jessica is a clinical psychologist who is trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Interpersonal Therapy (IPT). She is currently specializing in psychotherapy for sleep which is focused on specific treatments that help with a variety of sleep problems like insomnia or nightmares. We interviewed Dr. Jessica to learn more about what to expect out of therapy.Dr. Jessica says that, “People usually meet once a week or once every few weeks for about an hour at a time and it is talking, but it is very purposeful talking. It’s talking about things that are related to concerns that a person is having and trying to develop a plan for problem solving or improving those areas.”

So what does that mean for you? It means that yes, it is talking, but it’s also making a plan for what you’ll do outside of your therapy time and what tools you already have in your life that can help you improve your life. Also therapy is about your goals and what is important to you.

Dr. Jessica also talked about what your first session might be like: “The therapist gets to know the client a little bit, they talk about concerns the client is having and what might be going on in their life that may be contributing to those concerns.”

                Once again, this means that your therapist is going to listen to what you think you need in your life, what is bothering you and why you chose to come to therapy. Your therapist is going to ask you questions about this stuff so that they can get to know you better and help you come up with a plan for making your life better.

What about keeping confidentiality? Is my therapist going to talk to my parents about what we talk about?

               Dr. Jessica says: “My preference is in terms of building a good therapy relationship with the teenager is that whatever the teenager and I discuss is confidential between me and the teenager. And that we may choose to share some things with their parent or anyone else if that seems like it’s appropriate given the therapy. But that, I wouldn’t share anything without first letting the teenager know. Now there are 2 exceptions to that, which legally I am bound by law to report. Those are if the teenager is planning to hurt themselves or if they are being harmed by somebody else. Those things do not fall under the cover of confidentiality. Because the most important thing is the persons safety.”

But I’m nervous and embarrassed!

               Dr. Jessica says that it’s 100% normal to be nervous about your first session, or even later sessions. How would you know what to expect if you’ve never done something before? Your therapist is there because they want to help and they are open to hearing almost anything that’s on a person’s mind. Because no matter how embarrassing it may seem or how nervous you are about it, if it’s going to help you get better than it’s relevant!

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It’s totally normal to be hesitant to anxious about considering therapy, but that usually goes away once you actually meet the person you’re going to be talking with, but therapy is definitely a useful tool to have in your life!

Journaling Toward Mental Health

March 7, 2017 in Educate Yourself

I recently found an article on Amy Polar’s Smart Girls website about Journaling and I thought it would be great to share here.

HNCK4555 One of the things I really liked about the article was this:

According to a post on PsychCenteral, University of Texas at Austin psychologist and researcher James Pennebaker believes that, “Writing about stressful events helps you come to terms with them, thus reducing the impact of these stressors on your physical health.” A study from BJPsych Advances also found that expressive writing had a powerful impact on both the mind and body, linking journaling to “improved immune system functioning” and  “improved working memory,” among other beneficial things.

Do you journal? If so do you use pen and paper or an electronic device? Let us know how it has impacted you! 

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Being Discerning with your Facebook Friends

February 16, 2017 in Social Media Guide

We recently found this article on WikiHow about how to cultivate a really supportive friends list on your social media accounts – Facebook is specifically mentioned, but this could be used for any Social Media outlet. The steps they list are all detailed on the website but we’ve included the main points of them here:

  1. Ponder over the fact that the ideal human tribe number is thought to be about 150
  2. Think about the benefits of reducing the numbers of friends in your Facebook environment
  3. Value your time
  4. Reflect on what “friend” means to you
  5. Consider all the other things you’d rather be doing than pretending to like someone else’s Facebook updates, photos, ideas, whatever
  6. Cull your so-called Facebook friends by being discerning
  7. Set aside an afternoon to go through your friends list the first time
  8. Decline friend requests like there is no tomorrow

How many facebook “friends” do you have? How many of those people do you actually *like* and want to interact with? How many of them do you want to know about your life? Have you ever done a friend’s list clean-out? How did it feel afterwards? Are there any downsides to cutting out friends and how would you deal with them?