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Positive Ways to Use Social Media

May 25, 2017 in Social Media Guide

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We tend to always hear about the negative aspects of social media, but sometimes, it has the power to make the world a better place – IF you use it correctly! Although social media can be used in ways that can be harmful, like cyberbullying , there are many positive ways to use it to empower yourself and other people or groups. Here are a few ways social media can help with your personal or professional development in safe ways.

  • Spread positive messages! Sharing positive experiences (e.g., volunteering) might encourage others to learn more about or share your message.
  • Create profiles on sites such as LinkedIn. Advertising yourself for the future can be a great way to put yourself out there.
  • Expressing your opinion in a private social media status update can help give you the courage to voice your opinion out loud in public.
  • Social media can help develop cultural awareness and allow adolescents to discover how people their age live in other countries.
  • Familiarizes teens with technological functions that are used in many different career fields.
  • Social media has also been reported to help build confidence

Can you think of any other ways that social media has had a positive effect on you? Has anyone ever talked to you about how to use social media positively?  Let us know in the comment section below!

Dr. Taunya Tinsley

May 24, 2017 in Educate Yourself

Meet Dr. Taunya Tinsley

Doctor Taunya Marie Tinsley is a Licensed Professional Counselor, DMin, PhD, NCC, LPC. She is the owner of Transitions Counseling Service LLC and Life Skills Program, where she provides individual, marriage, family and group counseling and consultative services.  Additionally, Dr. Tinsley is the Clinical Director of the Mount Ararat Baptist Church Counseling Center.  According to her website “Dr. Tinsley’s interdisciplinary areas of counseling, research, and publications include multicultural issues in counseling, multicultural training and organizational development, spiritual and Christian interventions in counseling, sports counseling, and youth, adolescent, and adult development through sports.”

Photo kindly provided by Dr. Tinsley

Photo kindly provided by Dr. Tinsley

The SOVA Project recently had the amazing and fortunate opportunity to sit down with Dr. Tinsley. During our sit down we had the chance to speak to Dr. Tinsley about her work as a counselor.  Here’s what she had to say:

What are the key points when using the humanistic (meaning the study of the whole person) and existential theory (existential therapy is the belief that each person experiences struggles because of their interaction with certain situations that are essential to human existence such as death) for treatment?

When working with an individual, one of the main goals is to create an honest and caring relationship. The relationship between the client and therapist is empathic, person-centered, and nonjudgmental. Empathy is being able to understand someone’s perspective and experience (for more information please see this previous blog post on empathy). It is the ability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. When a client is comfortable in the relationship, that is what drives the change process. The therapist’s goal is to help the client reach self-actualization, which means to work towards your ideal self and your greatest potential.

How can using this model with adolescents with anxiety and/or depression be helpful?

This intervention style can be helpful with adolescents because it is about making meaning of a person’s life and experiences. The period of adolescence can be a difficult time because you are working through identity vs. identity confusion. This is when you are trying to figure out who you are as a person. You are getting more responsibilities and transitioning into a person that is free of the restrictions of your caregivers and are now making more decisions for yourself.  Working with a client using this model helps the adolescent work towards where they want to be and helps them understand their experiences.

Are there any techniques with this model that a person can use to help their anxiety or depression?

During therapy the focus will be on the present.  It is about understanding the lived experiences in the here and now.  During a therapy session, the therapist will use many opened ended questions, goal setting techniques, and personalized homework assignments.  Dr. Tinsley utilizes 3 different techniques:

  1. Making the individual more aware of who they are and their ideals and belief systems.
  2. Provide them with the knowledge to make sense of their experiences, and normalizing the experience so that the client can better understand that the reactions they are having don’t make them “weird,” but that the reactions are to the different things they’re experiencing.
  3. Provide skills and techniques to help the client work through the issues and challenges they are facing.

What are some multicultural issues in counseling and what should people be aware about for this topic?

All counseling is multicultural counseling because we are all unique individuals.  What really needs to be understood is that often people are judged by differences that can be easily seen such as, race, ethnicity, religion, gender, and disability so it is important to understand that particular aspect of culture.  People also have many identities that are not visible.  Part of being culturally competent means that you have an understanding and an awareness of how all these identities can impact particular issues and experiences in a person’s life.

What does multicultural training and development involve?

There are many different techniques that can be used when doing multicultural training.  First there are a variety of testing instruments that can be used to measure a person’s knowledge, awareness, and skills as well as the ability to develop cross-cultural relationships.  This can be done in the general sense or with a particular group of individuals, such as sexual orientation to measure a person’s beliefs and values.  Dr. Tinsley explains that research shows that a person’s multicultural skills and techniques are dependent on the individual’s awareness and knowledge as well as their ability to develop cross-cultural relationships.

If a client is coming into therapy for the first time, what would the client need to know?

It is important to know your counselor/therapist.  If possible, try to look up their therapeutic approach, work experience, and training.  Dr. Tinsley’s method within the first session is to immediately begin building the therapeutic relationship, as well as hearing the client’s voice.  She wants to know what brought you in and what you want to see improved.  Then she provides information about the counseling process and explains how they will be working together to achieve the client’s goals.  Also, Dr. Tinsley explains her philosophical approach and what it looks like in practice.

If you have any questions or remarks about the interview featured in today’s post, let us know in the comments below!

Understanding Section 504

May 23, 2017 in Educate Yourself

Do you ever feel like you’re struggling at school?

Do you ever feel like your depression or anxiety gets in the way of your learning?  Maybe Section 504 can help.

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What is Section 504?

Section 504 is a law the prevents discrimination against children with disabilities.

What does it do?

Section 504 makes sure that a student with a disability has equal access to an education and to benefits and services similar to those given to classmates without a disability.

Who does Section 504 protect?

Section 504 applies to students and the parents of students who go to public school (or any program) that receives funding from the federal government.

Does Section 504 protect students who have depression or anxiety?

Yes, if the depression or anxiety limits major life activities.

But what does ‘limits a major life activity’ mean?

Do you ever have trouble with school because of your anxiety or depression?  For example, does your depression make it hard for you to get out of bed and you end up missing school?  Or does your anxiety make it difficult for you to finish taking tests in the time allowed?  Do you avoid asking questions, have fear speaking in front of the class or accepting assignments that have been graded because of fear of finding out the grade?  Anxiety and depression can often make it hard for students to finish work, take tests or concentrate in the classroom

Learning (or reading, writing, doing math) is considered a major life activity.  Other life activities include walking, seeing, hearing, speaking, and breathing.  Therefore, if your depression or anxiety is causing you to have trouble learning or another major life activity then you may qualify for Section 504.

What does Section 504 require?

There is a specific process and requirements for Section 504.  Section 504 has its own identification, evaluation, placement and safeguards for students.

Who should you talk to about your depression or anxiety and Section 504?

Any trusted teacher, school counselor, nurse or parent is a great place to start.  Also, each school should have a Section 504 coordinator.

Do you wish to know more about Section 504?

Click here for a more in depth look at Section 504

Do you have any additional questions?  Do you have any experiences with Section 504 that you feel like sharing?  We’d love to hear!

Beating the Summer Baking Heat

May 22, 2017 in Be Positive

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When it’s hot out the last thing you want to do is turn on the oven and make it hotter! Did you know you can still make delicious desserts and get around the heat by baking with your slow cooker?

These Crockpot S’mores Cookies for example would make a delicious summer treat without the extra heat!

Ingredients

  • Chocolate Chip Cookie Base (from Ghirardelli package):
  • 2¼ cups flour
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • 1 cup butter, softened
  • ¾ cup sugar
  • ¾ cup packed brown sugar
  • 2 large eggs
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla
  • For topping:
  • 1½ cups chocolate chips
  • 1 cup Honey Teddy Grahams
  • 20 regular (full-sized, not mini) marshmallows
Instructions
  1. Stir flour with baking soda and salt, set aside
  2. In large mixing bowl, cream butter with sugar, brown sugar, eggs and vanilla
  3. Gradually blend dry mixture into creamed mixture
  4. Spray crock well with nonstick spray
  5. Using a large spoon sprayed with nonstick spray, press dough evenly into crock
  6. Top by sprinkling evenly with chocolate chips, marshmallow, and Teddy Grahams
  7. Cover and cook on high for 2-4 hours. Mine took 3.5 hours.
  8. Cookie is done when lightly browned and edges are starting to get crisp
  9. Turn off crock and let cool
  10. Cut and remove with spatula

Find a longer list of delicious treats that can be made in the slower cooker on this buzzfeed list: http://www.buzzfeed.com/rachelysanders/slow-cooker-desserts#.elmAvzPgO.

Do you enjoy baking?  What are your favorite recipes?  Let us know!

Into the Wild

May 19, 2017 in LINKS

Spending time with animals can have calming effects and give you a break from your busy schedule.

Click here to watch live footage at the Monterey Bay Aquarium to relax! Choose from several different animals and see what they’re up to.

Pittsburgh also has its own Wildlife Web Cam!

Learn more about the therapeutic effects of animals.

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Major in Social Media?

May 18, 2017 in Social Media Guide

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One college in New Jersey is opening a center for social media study and will be offering a business degree with a concentration in social media marketing. New programs like these are suggesting that social media is here to stay, and will be a major way that all types of business will market in the future.

On one hand this may be a new and exciting opportunity if you have ever thought about  pursuing a career in social media. On the other hand, the push towards marketing any and all products through social media is a reminder that there are more and more targeted advertisements everyday on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, ect. Have you ever seen these advertisements on social media and thought about what and why they are advertising? It is not always bad, but it is important to keep in mind that there is a ton of thought and money that goes into exactly what advertisements  appear on your social media. Here are some questions you can ask yourself that might be helpful in understanding advertisements in social media:

1.) Who created  this message?

2.) What lifestyles, values and points of view are represented in, or left out of this message?

3.) Why is this message being sent?

4.) How might other people understand this message differently than I understand it?

5.) What creative techniques are being used to attract my attention?

Have you noticed advertising in social media? Have you ever thought about making a career in social media? Let us know in the comments!

Sources: NJ.com and ACT for Youth

What is depression?

May 17, 2017 in Educate Yourself

If a doctor or medical professional believes you may be depressed, what does that really mean? The trouble with depression is its not a rash – its hard to “see” – although in research, brain studies can show how the brain can look different in someone who is depressed – so then how does a doctor know that’s what’s wrong?

It comes down to symptoms – these are complaints you have or someone else may notice about you – that tend to go together in someone who is depressed. They include:

  • Feeling down most of the day. Maybe you notice you are just feeling sad, empty, or down in the dumps. You might feel so not yourself that its your friend or family member who notices you are tearful or even irritable.
  • Not interested in things you used to like. Things you used to think were fun aren’t fun anymore. You don’t really do them and even if you don’t notice, other people might.
  • Changes in your appetite or weight. You’re hungry all the time or you don’t feel like anything tastes good anymore.
  • Problems with sleep. You are tired and sleepy all day even when you get enough rest, or the opposite – you can’t fall asleep no matter how hard you try.
  • Tiredness or not having energy. 
  • You feel like everything is your fault. Even things you know probably are not. Or you feel like you’re no good at anything at all.
  • You have a tough time concentrating or making decisions.
  • You may have thoughts of suicide.

MOST important is that because of these symptoms, you are having trouble living the life you want to live. 

It might mean you are not achieving your goals, getting to school every day, getting to work, doing the fun activities you used to do, or being the friend or partner you want to be.

A health professional can help you figure out if you should get treatment for depression or if something else could be causing some of your symptoms. For example, having a low blood count can cause sleepiness, fatigue, and a tough time concentrating. Sometimes it can take many visits for you and your health professional to figure out the best way to help you.

The most important thing is if someone else notices or you notice these symptoms in yourself, usually they won’t just go away on their own. Talking to a trusted health professional will be your next best step.

You and driving

May 16, 2017 in Educate Yourself

Why should parents not let you drive with your friends in the car? Picking them up and driving wherever you want to go is the funnest part! Finally you don’t need to be dropped off everywhere anymore.  No more waiting on a parent or adult for a ride!

Well…because they care about you!

Take a look at this statistic:

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That huge red bar means if you are 16 or 17 years-old and you have 3 or more people in the car with you, the risk of a crash goes way up!

Do you think its fair for parents to ask you not to have friends in the car?  Is this something you’ve talked about with your parent?  Have you ever thought about making a safety agreement?  Let us know! 

Emotion Search

May 15, 2017 in Be Positive

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Barbara Fredrickson, a researcher who studies positivity, found that negative emotions not only make us feel lousy, but they also get in the way of healthy functioning.  Any kind of positivity is healthier for our physical and emotional well-being and keeps us moving forward.

 

Answer the questions below in the comments section!  

“If I could experience any emotion right now, it would be:____________.” 

What can you do today to help you feel that emotion?

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Circle of 6

May 12, 2017 in LINKS

Imagine you are in a sticky situation: you need a ride home, you’re scared of where you are, you need someone to lend an ear…

Circle of 6

Now imagine that with a few clicks on your phone a circle made up of your 6 most trusted people can know where you are and what you need.

from Circleof6.com

Everything from:

  • “+” ICONS CHOOSE YOUR CIRCLE

    Add up to 6 people from your contacts to join your circle. Choose good friends or any trusted adult.

  • PIN ICON: COME GET ME

    Sends a text to your Circle that says:
    “Come and get me. I need help getting home safely.” with your GPS coordinates.

  • PHONE ICON: CALL ME

    Sends a text to your Circle that says:
    “Call and pretend you need me. I need an interruption.”

  • CHAT ICON: I NEED TO TALK

    Sends a text to your Circle that says: “I need to talk.”

  • INFORMATION & HELPFUL LINKS

    Direct access to information about sexuality, relationships and safety.

  • PHONE OUT HOTLINES

    Direct access to national hotlines and a specialized hotline of your choice, such as LGBTQ, Spanish-language, etc. based on your personal priorities.

Is this something you would use? Do any of your friends already have it on their phone? This app was originally designed for college campus safety, but we think that it can be used for anyone! Let us know what you think in the comments!