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Manage Anxiety

August 12, 2016 in Educate Yourself

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Photo Credit: H o l l y. via Compfight cc

A lot of people talk about anxiety, but what it is and what actually helps can be confusing. Good info can be hard to find. Thankfully AnxietyBC.com exists. It is an awesome resource from British Columbia with practically everything you need to know about understanding and managing anxiety. They even have an awesome app! Go to the youth section to get help managing anxiety, including tips on understanding your anxiety, overcoming fears, and healthy ways to deal with the stress. There is also a mobile app called MindShift you can download onto your smartphone.

We think this site is awesome – what did you think? (Its ok to disagree with us!)

Celebrities Suffer Too

August 10, 2016 in Educate Yourself

It is easy to think that celebrities live perfect lives that we can’t even imagine. However, more celebrities face mental illnesses than you may think. Here are some examples of inspiring celebrities who have struggled through mental illnesses.

1. Angelina Jolie : Angelina has admitted to falling into deep depressions, specifically after her mother passed away. She says, “I felt I was going into a very dark place, and I wasn’t capable of getting up in the morning…” She also says that being physically active helped her to challenge her negative energy.

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2. Demi Lovato: Demi has spoken out about struggling with bulimia, anorexia, depression, and drug use. She says that for her, music was her number one way of coping with her strugggles. She believes that loving yourself and your body are the keys to positivity.

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3. Anne Hathaway: She too suffered from depression and anxiety as a teenager. Anne sees that part of her life as totally separate from her life now, a reminder that beating mental illness can change your entire outlook on life. She says, “that girl is gone, gone to sleep. She has said her piece and is gone.”

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4. Pete Wentz: Pete has battled depression since the young age of six. He has seen therapists his entire life for support. He explains his depression by saying, “The hardest thing about depression is that it is addictive. It begins to feel uncomfortable not to be depressed. You feel guilty for feeling happy.” He said his family and friends have been his way to continue beating depression.

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5. Jim Carey: Jim Carey says that depression hit him hard after his second failed marriage. While he tried various methods of treatments, he accredits maintaining a healthier lifestyle by eating healthy foods and excercising as his method for feeling better as a whole.

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Just remember that even when you feel totally alone, you are not. Millions of people face mental illness every day, even those who are our idols. There are many more celebrities who have faced mental illness and who speak out against it. Try looking up your favorite celebrities and seeing if there are support groups that you can join along with them.

What do you think? Do these role models help you to think about mental illness differently? Leave us your comments below!

 

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8 Signs of Respectful Love

August 9, 2016 in Educate Yourself

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When considering a potential partner or whether to stay in a relationship or not, there are several questions you should ask yourself. One extremely important question is, “Does this person truly respect me?” Mutual respect in a relationship is one of the strongest indicators that the relationship is healthy and worthwhile. It is important to recognize that while love and respect are often connected, they are not the same, so evaluate both qualities independently when looking at your relationship.

Here are 8 signs that your partner respects you.

1. They really listen. 

One way that we show anyone respect is by letting them have the floor when they need to. If your partner has respect for your thoughts and feelings, they will listen closely to anything you have to say, instead of making conversations about themselves.

2. They are proud of you.

A respectful partner is proud of you for how you are on the inside, not your outward appearance. They are proud to be your significant other because of who you truly are, not how you make them look to others.

3. They take advice from you. 

A relationship with mutual respect means that one person is not “in charge” or “wearing the pants.” This means that you both value each others’ opinions and advice. Therefore, your partner will seek out your advice and take it seriously when it is given.

4. They respect your physical boundaries. 

This may sound like a no-brainer, but even once you are deep into a serious relationship, your partner needs to show respect for your physical space. This can mean anything from refraining from PDA if one partner doesn’t prefer it, to understanding your comfort zone while being intimate. A respectful partner doesn’t ask questions or make you feel guilty for physical boundaries of any kind.

5. They don’t leave you hanging.

Relationships involve a lot of communication and time together. Therefore, a respectful partner won’t flake on plans or ignore your texts. If they respect your time and feelings, they will prioritize your relationship. If they are cancelling on you consistently or never returning your phone calls, they are disrespecting you.

6. They are honest. 

Respect goes hand in hand with honesty. If a partner truly respects you, they will be honest about things that are harder to discuss, as well as their everyday actions. Hiding the truth or fabricating things shows disrespect.

7. They trust you.

One of the number one ways to know if your partner doesn’t respect you is if they are constantly policing your every move. If they have to know every detail of your whereabouts, who you are with, or what you are doing, they do not trust you. A respectful partner will trust you when you are not with them and won’t question your actions.

8. They fight fair. 

Another huge indication of a disrespectful partner is if fights get out of hand. This means derogatory or demeaning language, low blows, or physical violence of any kind (NEVER ok). While it is normal for couples to get into arguments, respect is still a key ingredient. If an argument with your significant other starts to feel like a war, respect is not happening.

Source: Bustle

If you feel that your relationship is beyond disrespectful and has become emotionally or physically abusive, visit Leaving Abuse.

 

 Do you know of more signs that a relationship includes mutual respect? Share your thoughts below. 

Nature Photo Contest!

August 5, 2016 in LINKS

Thank you to everyone who participated in the Nature Photo Contest! Take a peek through the gallery to see all of the photos. The winner’s username is posted in the comments section, so remember to login to see if it was you. The winner is also featured in our July Newsletter and their photo is posted on our Instagram Page: sovaproject. Be on the lookout for our August Photo Contest!

Interested in participating in another photo contest? Place some suggestions in the comments below! 

Personal Zen: An App Review

July 29, 2016 in LINKS

It can be tough to find an app that has actually been part of a research study and has been shown to work.

Personal Zen is a fun game-based app that has actually been proven to help decrease anxiety.

It is based on a concept called Attention Bias Modification Treatment. People who are anxious tend to lean toward seeing a situation as scary or negative. The treatment uses different techniques to retrain the brain to be less biased toward negative thinking.

 

The Personal Zen game helps you practice this skill by focusing on a positive looking face instead of a negative looking one.

It is available for free on Android and iOS so if you check it out, please let us know what you think! It is best used on a regular basis especially when you are actually feeling anxious (versus just in a regular mood). Enjoy!

Won’t you please, Won’t you please? Please won’t you update your profile?

July 20, 2016 in Welcome

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Photo Credit: Spooky Momma via Compfight cc

Hi SOVA neighbors! We have added a new feature to our blog which is a nicer profile and list of members using the buddypress plug-in.

Here are some new things you can do!

  • update your avatar picture
  • upload a cover image
  • add more details about yourself!  remember the site is anonymous so please don’t list your real name, real picture, or location
  • view a list of other members either alphabetically or by last active
  • see if other members have written blog posts
  • write a blog post for us! we haven’t activated this feature yet, but soon we will start inviting users who have commented in the past to ask you to be a SOVA ambassador!

Some things you cannot do (like other social media sites) are:

  • privately message each other
  • ask each other to be friends
  • post a status update

The reason we have not activated these settings is we don’t have the resources to moderate these interactions and we want this site to be safe!

You can find the profile menu on the left side bar (or if you’re on the phone on the drop down.) If you don’t see the profile menu, its probably because you are not logged in so please log in first! Have fun!

Do you have any feedback or questions about our new profiles? Please let us know in comments!

 

Finding the Right Healthcare Professional

July 12, 2016 in Educate Yourself

In the past we posted an article that looked into more detailed differences between various healthcare professionals, titled What Do All Of These Letters Mean: A more detailed look. This article is a spin off from that one by providing some tips on how to decide who the best healthcare professional for you might be and how to find one nearby.health professionals

How do I find the right healthcare professional for me?

This is a tricky question that can have a lot of correct answers. Remember that you are an expert in your needs so listening to your intuition and asking yourself real questions is a great place to start. The steps below are guidelines for navigating the system and may not be the best fit for everyone.

  • Do you have a primary care physician you see (like when you’re sick or want to get the flu vaccine, etc..)?
  • Talking to your primary care physician is always a good first option. They are very familiar with mental and behavioral health needs and are a good place to start when deciding what might suit your situation. Make an appointment and keep a list of things to discuss with your doctor. For example:
    • Explain how you’ve been feeling, any changes in your emotions or behaviors, and any issues or concerns you have
    • Tell them about your family history (for example if your mother experienced depression or your uncle was diagnosed with bipolar disorder)
    • Ask them if medications, therapy, or both could be appropriate for you
    • Ask them for referrals to behavioral healthcare professionals they like and trust

Good Rules of Thumb:

  • Licensed professional counselors and social workers often have a wide variety of skills. Seeking the guidance of these professionals first may be best if your situation involves some environmental and social factors. For example, you get really stressed out and anxious at home because the house is very crowded and listening to your mom and grandma fight makes you feel nervous.
  • Psychologists and Psychiatrists typically work with individuals who need longer term services, have more complex health needs, and require medication management. For example, you experience depression and have been previously diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and are currently taking two different medications.

Finding a healthcare professional:

First find out if and what kind of health insurance you have. If you have health insurance you’ll most likely want to ensure you find a provider in your insurance network (which just means they accept your health insurance). You can find different providers by calling the number on your health insurance card. Behavioral healthcare professionals often have a different number and are noted on the back of your insurance card (see below).

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If you are looking for a medical provider, or want to start there but don’t know how to find one, you can look at your insurance card for that information too! The front or back of your card often display a number and a website you can use (see below):

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Whether you are looking for a physician or another provider always ask your insurance company what the cost to you will be! Sometimes you are required to pay a fee every time you see this person, that’s called a copay. Sometimes you are required to pay a portion of the bill for that visit, which is typically called a coinsurance payment.

What if you don’t have health insurance?

If you don’t have health insurance it may be best to examine some of the resources available in your area. For example, is there a counselor or nurse that you can talk to at school? Are there any academic institutions (like a nearby university) that has training programs for their students? You may be able to receive services from students in training who are supervised by a number of professionals! Another option is to call local community health centers or non-profit organizations and see if they have any free or low cost services. Search the internet for community health centers in your area! When you call, try to give them as much detail about your situation as possible so they can best answer your questions. For example, ‘Hi my name is X and I am 17 years old. I am looking to talk to someone about anxious feelings I’ve been experiencing but I do not have health insurance. Are there any low cost or free services at your health center? If so, how much will it cost me and what qualifications does the provider have?”

Remember that no question is a dumb question! All of these people want to help you get the best care. If you need help with a referral and are still not sure what to do, email us at socialmediastudy@chp.edu

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Do you have experience looking for a healthcare professional? What are some helpful tips you can share for other users? Did this article provide you with useful information? Let us know in the comments!

SOVA Project’s Pet Photo Contest!

July 8, 2016 in LINKS

Thanks to all of the users who participated in the SOVA Project’s Pet Photo Contest! Take a peek through the gallery for a complete look at the pictures. The winner’s username will be posted in the comments section, so remember to login to see if it is you. You can also check out the winning photo on our Instagram Page: sovaproject

Pets Rule!

Interested in participating in another photo contest? Put some ideas in the comments section!

What Do All Of These Letters Mean: A more detailed look

July 6, 2016 in Educate Yourself

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Photo Cred: Tagxedo

Recently one of our team members wrote an article entitled, “What do all of these letters mean?” This article provided a brief overview of the post-nominal letters (those initials after someone’s name) we so often see while navigating the health world. Some of you asked for more information (thank you for your input!), so now we are delivering. This post reviews the details about certain health professionals. Review the sections below which highlighs some of the main points regrading education, medication, and therapy. Be on the lookout for our next post which will discuss how to find the right healthcare professional for you. As always, if you have questions or thoughts please leave them in the comments section or email us at socialmediastudy@chp.edu

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Follow the link below to a PDF version of this chart. You can click on the professional organization boxes to follow a link to their websites. 🙂

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Did this post help to further explain professional titles? Will you be reading the follow up post about selecting the right healthcare professional for you? Leave us your thoughts in the comments!

The JED Foundation

July 1, 2016 in Educate Yourself

Did you know about Love is Louder?

Love is Louder (LIL) is a movement of hundreds of thousands people to send the message of love and address issues like bullying, discrimination or depression.

LIL participants include schools, communities, individuals and families. They use arts to raise the perception that love and support are much louder than the internal voice and external biases that affect oneself in a negative way.

LIL is one of the many projects of the JED Foundation, founded by a couple of loving parents, Donna and Phil Sawtow, who lost their son, Jed, to suicide. The program’s mission is to promote mental health protection and prevent suicide among college and university students.

As a college student who suffered from mental illness, The Jed Foundation provided me immediate and extensive support on their website. For example, ULife is a connected program which provides confidential screenings and discreet counseling. To see that I am not alone in the mental health battle and that many people care about me has helped me through such a tough period.

Have you checked out the JED Foundation? Are the knowledge and resources provided in the website helpful to you? Keep in mind that you are not alone and there is support everywhere if you need it.