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Mental Health Resources for Black Youth

May 29, 2020 in LINKS

We recently posted this post and its resources back in February, but given current events, wanted to share these resources again.


It can be difficult to find resources for mental health resources that feel like they’re targeted to you. This is particularly true for minorities and underprivileged groups. Racial and ethnic minorities have less access to mental health resources and services than white people, and when they do get access, it can be of poorer quality, feeling that the treatment they receive doesn’t fully suit them or that they feel like they’re experiencing discrimination.

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African-American communities are no exception. African-American adolescents require different approaches when developing treatment, because they express their depressive symptoms differently, for a number of reasons.

The options below are just a start to what may be available online for African-Americans and African-American youth. A couple are sites dedicated to one gender, one is an app, and another is a podcast, but all of them have been created and are run by African-Americans, with the hope that seeing something created for you by someone who looks like you can have a more significant impact.

The Safe Place This is an app dedicated just for African-Americans and how they can learn more and think about their mental health. The creator, Jasmine Pierre, is a certified peer support specialist, and has the app offer a forum, statistics specifically about black mental health, and inspirational quotes. There are also self-care tips for things such as coping with police brutality, how to talk to black family members about mental health, and mental health in the black church.

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Fireflies Unite T-Kea – the woman named in the podcast’s full title of Fireflies Unite Podcast with Kea – releases episodes every Monday where she allows individuals to share their stories about mental health and the stigmas they face, especially as people of color. She is a mental health advocate dedicated to showing that mental illness can affect anyone, and is a suicide survivor.

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Therapy for Black Men The main focus of this website (run by mental health professional Vladimire Calixte) is to provide a directory for African-American men to access therapists who they can trust with offering services that will be beneficial to them. The search gives you the option to get more advanced beyond searching just by location, including therapists’ specialties, treatment options, and if they provide therapy remotely. The site also has a coach directory and a blog.

Therapy for Black Girls Dr. Joy Harden Bradford is a licensed psychologist who created this site specifically for African-American women and girls to have a resource to learn more about well-being and mental health. Like Therapy for Black Men, there’s a directory listing therapists nationwide who provide “high quality, culturally competent services” for African-American women and girls, letting you search by location and by insurance. The website also has its own weekly podcast hosted by Dr. Joy, where she talks and educates listeners about an array of mental health topics.


Do you have any recommendations? If you’re a minority, do you look for resources that are more specifically tailored for you?

The Problem with Autoplay and Posting Triggering Images Online

May 28, 2020 in Social Media Guide

The blog post includes mentions of police brutality and violence on black people. Please read with caution if any of these items triggers or upsets you.


The world can feel bleak and hopeless at times, and our access to news literally anywhere in the world at any time makes this much more obvious. And while this bleakness and hopelessness can be depressing and very easily overwhelming, it can also make us aware of injustices and give us a place to make a change.

However, the methods in calling attention to these issues and taking action can vary, and the choices that we make online to talk about these issues can have very different effects. Activism is important, and social media can be a great place to address and practice it, but those who are the victims of injustice are also using these same platforms and are directly affected by engaging with and encountering this content.

The recent killing of George Floyd, an unarmed black man by Minneapolis police is not an isolated event. Neither is how it caught the public eye, through a recording of his death. While some non-black people may argue that the graphic imagery is necessary to show the severity of the situation and to get people to care, the truth of the matter is that it’s more likely to do harm than good. 

The same can be said for other sorts of situations, such as videos from detainment camps. By sharing and posting videos of graphic, upsetting events, those who see themselves represented in them – like minority adolescents – can have higher levels of PTSD and depressive symptoms. Social media making these images easily accessible through methods like autoplay can make them unavoidable too.

The more frequently that they are exposed to these videos and images (like when they go viral and are everywhere), the frequency of the symptoms can increase and intensify. Although they may not have experienced the same or similar event, minorities seeing people who look like them in graphic and deadly situations can make them feel like it could be them next and reminds them of the collective race trauma that people like them have gone through and constantly experience.

For others, posting triggering content can also make us more desensitized to injustices, especially when these are injustices affecting the same group of people. Instead of the “shock” reaction that people expect others to have to these videos and images, constantly being exposed to them, and especially when it’s to a group that they don’t belong in, can make people accept this as almost normal and just something to be expected at this point.

Unfortunately, there’s no perfect way of avoiding all of this unless everyone on social media doesn’t post this kind of content at all. If you are a member of these communities or do not wish to view these images and videos for any other reason, most social media websites give you the ability to turn off autoplay and/or image previews. Others may censor and put a warning about the kind of content before it’s viewed. This way, anything that may potentially be triggering has to be clicked on, but these methods aren’t always perfect either.

It’s ultimately best to refrain from sharing this kind of content, and instead, try posting articles or content by people from these affected groups instead and how they feel about these situations and how it affects them.


How do you feel about how people post about activism online? Do you encounter triggering or graphic content online, and if so, does it come up unprompted and without you seeking it out? How does that make you feel?

Weekend Reads: How is Gen Z Coping with COVID?

May 22, 2020 in COVID-19, LINKS

Experiencing a historical event is no doubt affecting everyone, but the effect it has on youths and adolescents are significantly stronger. During these pivotal developmental periods when it comes to building relationships, receiving an education, and exploring who they want to be, the pandemic and its effects such as quarantine, anxieties about the future, and so on almost makes it feel like all this progress is at a sudden halt. 

This long weekend, we wanted to highlight a few articles that have polled and interviewed adolescents about how they’re coping, feeling, and thinking about the future because of COVID. These include articles about humor and memes, an honest admission about uncertainty and panic, and even about how the way we dress can change. Check them out below:

COVID-19 Might Change The Way We Dress Forever

It’s OK to Find Humor in Some of This

We Asked Millennials and Gen Z How They’re Coping With the Pandemic. Here’s What They Said

The Pulse of Gen Z in the Time of COVID-19


How are you coping with COVID? What are things that you think that are going to change for you as we slowly but eventually transition back into somewhat of a familiar routine before the pandemic hit?

Cringe Humor and Embracing the Awkward Online

May 21, 2020 in Social Media Guide

Of course, everyone finds different things amusing (memes and self-deprecating humor are two topics we’ve covered before), but cringe humor has started to become more and more popular among adolescents on social media.

Cringe humor is kind of a combination of both memes and self-deprecating humor. It thrives off of awkwardness and getting strong reactions from whoever is watching or engaging with the humor. 

The best example of cringe humor? TikTok. As a video uploading site, the kind of content that goes up there can vary, but what people usually associate it with are those odd lip-synching videos and strange activities out in public where they disrupt otherwise normal routines. It’s reminiscent of Vine from a few years ago – short videos that are ready to be meme’d at any moment – but has the addition of filters and more than 6 seconds to do something ridiculous.

Cringe humor has been around for a while though. In a way, it’s the 21st century version of slapstick humor, where someone slipping on a banana peel or getting pied on the face is funny to us. The Office is incredibly well-known for its cringe humor (especially with Michael Scott), so it’s no wonder that the younger generation that actively uses TikTok is discovering the sitcom and is obsessed with it, despite it first airing 15 years ago.

At the end of it all, cringe humor is someone openly putting themselves out there knowing fully well that they’re doing something silly and embarrassing, and this vulnerability can lighten situations, especially in current times when teens and adolescents have been feeling anxious and hopeless. Cringe humor through outlets like TikTok and The Office compilations are short and accessible, and at the end of the day are just silly and can provide a quick distraction for some when everything else can feel overwhelming

The vulnerability that others put out by engaging in cringe humor can inspire us to embrace the awkwardness too. Although it’s probably not to the same degree, seeing others put themselves out there in a silly way can have us look into the things that we’re self-conscious or anxious about when it comes to our own personality and come to terms with it.

We can’t be perfect (no one is) and it can get really anxiety-inducing trying to have that composed appearance all the time. Cringe humor shows us that if others are willing to drop that facade and goof off and put what others thinks are our flaws out in the open, then we can too


Do you watch TikTok? Do you like cringe humor? What ways do you think you can embrace your imperfections?

“Tools to Thrive”

May 15, 2020 in COVID-19, LINKS

As Mental Health Awareness Month hits the halfway point today, it feels like there couldn’t be better timing to explicitly have a conversation focusing on the topic as daily life continues to be a constant series of unknowns and stressors given the pandemic, staying at home, and adjusting for those where places are starting to slowly open back up. 

We wanted to specifically highlight the Mental Health America organization this week and how they are promoting Mental Health Awareness Month. Each May, they have been releasing mental health toolkits to encourage conversations and provide education about variously themed mental health topics (2018 was about the mind-body connection, and 2017 was about engaging in risky behavior, for example).

This year’s toolkit, besides the expected, yet needed COVID-19 bonus materials, focuses on improving mental health and building resiliency. The toolkit, titled “Tools 2 Thrive,” includes print handouts, web and social media materials, and ideas on how to reach out to others about the topic.

The toolkit is available to download, but you will have to sign up in order to receive the content.


Have you ever used a toolkit before? What methods have you used to improve your mental health?

Oversocializing on Social Media

May 14, 2020 in Social Media Guide

In this time of isolation and being removed from many, if not all, of your loved ones and those close to you, social media has almost become a necessity in order to connect with them. In fact, you may have seen, or even given, advice on how important it is to reach out and connect with those virtually. 

Maintaining some sort of social life is needed during quarantine for many reasons, especially when it comes to mental health and for those who are susceptible to having symptoms of mental illnesses like depression and anxiety. You may be separated from those who you see as a support system, or you might be living alone, where it can be easy to get stuck in your own head and thoughts if you’re not talking with others. 

And while it’s necessary to keep up some kind of virtual social life, you actually might find yourself feeling pressured to constantly have one, to the point where you’re socializing and talking more with others more than you used to do face-to-face. This can be a good thing, where you’re finding yourself building stronger relationships with others, but it can also be exhausting and you might feel yourself getting burnt out. With all the advice suggesting to connect to others more, you may also feel pressured to reach out to everyone you know, and you may feel guilty if you don’t constantly reach out or aren’t as present in Zoom calls or FaceTime conversations.

So while social media is vital during this time, you shouldn’t feel like you should be pressured to constantly talk to people all the time. Take a step back and think about how much interaction you usually preferred before quarantine started. Are you an introvert who only needs to talk to a couple of close friends a day? Do you prefer texting over video calls? Think about your former socializing routine and how you can adjust that in a quarantine situation, without pressuring yourself to increase it to the point that you’re adding extra stress to your routine.


How often are you using social media to interact with others? Have you noticed a change in your social media habits and how often you’re talking to others?

Tackling Stigma

May 8, 2020 in LINKS

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The topic about how stigma affects how we view mental illness is not new. The way that people talk about mental illness can not only impact how we view those with mental illness, but how we can view our own. We’ve talked about stigma several times before, because it’s important to change this mindset and the harmful effects that it can have.

There have been many efforts and attempts to change the conversation, especially online. One such way is through the government: MentalHealth.gov provides content from other government organizations such as the Center for Disease Control (CDC) and NAMI and uses the site as a resource for information about mental health. One of their primary goals is to tackle the conversation (or lack of) about mental health and create a new one within communities to help normalize it.

One of their pages focuses specifically on stigma, and even more specifically, presents it as a fact sheet. Here, they present a common “myth” about mental health that can contribute to the stigma and a more negative way about how people can handle their mental illnesses. Not only do they cover the myths that people believe in about those who have a mental illness, but they also debunk ones about how to help others. These include how thinking that there’s no use in helping others because they’re a “lost cause” and that it’s impossible to prevent. The site also links to external resources with some of their facts to provide more information.

You can check it out here.


What are other myths that you can think of about mental health? How do you think people can change the way they talk about mental health? Let us know below in the comments!

Weekend Reads: Ramadan and Mental Health

May 1, 2020 in LINKS

This year, Mental Health Awareness Month overlaps with the Islamic month of Ramadan. The simplest association with Ramadan is fasting: from sunrise to sunset everyday, Muslims who are able to fast do not eat or drink anything (even water).

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However, Ramadan is more than just the physical act of fasting. Ramadan is also meant to serve as a time for Muslims to refrain from bad habits and to practice doing things that are more beneficial and productive. It can be a time for Muslims to clear their head and focus on what matters to them.  

Islam is the second largest religion in the world with closer to 2 billion people practicing. Ramadan is a different experience for everyone – some aren’t able to fast because of physical reasons, while others may have their own personal struggles with it because of their history with mental health and illness. We wanted to focus on the second part specifically, since there is a strong stigma associated with mental illness in Muslims communities, and even Muslim doctors aren’t sure how to approach administering medication to Muslim patients that require food or water (especially with psychiatric medication).

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For example, Ramadan can be a particularly difficult time for those who have struggled with eating disorders, with the potential to trigger. You can read about two young women’s personal stories and experiences with this, one published on Teen Vogue and another on Dazed.

Two other articles talk about the mental health and self-care aspect of Ramadan and how it’s a time for cleansing. You can read these articles on NPR and Allure – the NPR article has several Muslims talk about how Ramadan affects their mental health and well-being, while the Allure article is a more personal story.

Finally, this year can feel particularly harder because of quarantine. Many go to mosques after they open their fasts to pray, or will go outside to other places as a distraction as they are fasting. Being unable to do either can increase feelings of guilt and loneliness, and for some of those fasting, can even be unsafe depending on who they are living with. Check out an i-D article about the topic here.


Do you celebrate Ramadan? Have you ever fasted before? How do you think fasting can help or be difficult for one’s mental health?

Taking Things One Day at a Time

April 27, 2020 in Be Positive

One of the most commonly given and useful pieces of advice in regards with coping and living in quarantine has been to establish a routine. This is incredibly important! Regardless of quarantine or not, having some sort of structure in your routine and your daily activities can help the mind feel more organized, less cluttered, and less vulnerable to messy – and potentially chaotic – thinking.

However, putting pressure on yourself to maintain a routine and coming up with a strict, hourly schedule to stick to can also be stressful. It can lead to you feeling guilty if you end up missing a block of time or getting distracted if you were supposed to be doing something else that was planned for that time. 

So while having some sort of routine and order is important and good to have, it’s also important to remind yourself that even if you “mess things up,” that doesn’t mean that you’re a screw-up, terrible at planning, or that you can never maintain a routine. Each day comes with different circumstances, events, and barriers (yes, even if you’re spending nearly all of your time inside in the same space) and is going to end up being different in some sort of way.

Acknowledging that not sticking 100% to a routine you’ve created does not reflect your worth or ability is a necessary step to take. Remembering that tomorrow is a new day and a new opportunity to practice a routine can help too. This counts even if you did 0% of what you had planned.

Routines are ultimately meant to be guidelines too. They’re adaptable and flexible, and don’t need to be so rigid that every minute and hour is controlled. While it’s good to have patterns in your day-to-day life, you shouldn’t have to feel like you’re going through the same few things in a mundane cycle every single day.


Do you have a routine? What did your routine used to look like? How do you feel if your routines stray off or don’t go according to plan?

Seizing the Awkward with Coronavirus

April 24, 2020 in LINKS

Seize the Awkward is a website that wants visitors to do just that: starting and having those awkward conversations about mental health and illnesses. Huge factors such as stigma and the fear of saying the wrong thing can make it, well, awkward, to open up about what you’re going through or to check in on someone that you’re concerned about, but these conversations are necessary and could be life-saving.

And while the coronavirus pandemic is a public health crisis, it also comes with a much needed and scary conversation about how it is affecting us all mentally – especially Gen Z and youths

Seize the Awkward has created a page on their site dedicated to providing tips about coping with mental health issues specifically related to the coronavirus. If you’ve visited the site before, the layout is pretty similar to their usual tips, but this page features suggestions on how to connect with others virtually to get an escape, such as taking a virtual museum tour or watching livestreams. They even provide gifs and stickers you can use on posts to let people know that they can reach out to you if they need someone to talk to (and if you need help with how to have those conversations, the website has got you covered).

We hope this helps in some way, whether you’re trying to find something to do with friends virtually or you want advice on how to be a place of support for others.


Have you ever had what felt like an awkward conversation about mental health? Looking back, why do you think it was awkward? What advice do you have about having mental health conversations?