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The Problems with Momo

March 7, 2019 in Social Media Guide

video-1606945_1280Chances are, you know who Momo is if you’ve had any access to a screen in the past couple of weeks. According to the initial posts warning about her, the YouTube and YouTube Kids algorithm would include a video in the queue about a creepy-looking, doll-like woman named Momo telling children to hurt, or even kill themselves through a series of challenges after sending her messages via text or WhatsApp.

The conversation about Momo has taken several turns, and is recently starting to quiet down. This is because it has continuously been proven to be a hoax, with no evidence that these videos featuring Momo actually exists. In fact, the only online posts and discussions surrounding Momo were traced back to posts warning parents and other adults to talk to their children about the challenge.

While the Momo Challenge itself was fake, it was still an extreme of the social media challenges youths and adolescents take part of today. Perhaps this is the reason that the fear and worry surrounding it was so validated. Actual social media challenges such as the cinnamon and Bird Box challenges have been mostly conducted by children and young adults and often involve participating in dangerous activities and posting them online.

Image by alphalight1 on Pixabay

Image by alphalight1 on Pixabay

The Momo Challenge, or lack thereof, also speaks to the dangers about how misinformation can make an issue that doesn’t originally exist real, and bringing it up can cause the consequences that those talking about it are trying to avoid. It can seem confusing at first, but most children are hearing about Momo from adults and not each other or on social media. Parents and teachers trying to keep these kids safe actually increase their curiosity about the troubling subject and they start looking up a topic that they hadn’t known about before. Those who are at risk or vulnerable to self-harm or mental illness may start to think more about it too now that they are exposed to the subject.

These are important items to keep in mind, not just for children, but for adults too, when approaching how to interpret and then discuss troubling content online, especially with those with mental illnesses and can be triggered by topics such as self-harm and suicide. Education and safety is important, but so is tracing back the origins of a news story and whether they come from legitimate sources.

To read more about parents’ and children’s relationship with social media challenges and safety and how the Momo Challenge became the conversation that it was today, check out the following articles below:

Momo Is Not Trying to Kill Children (The Atlantic)
The ‘Momo Challenge’ isn’t a viral danger to children online. But it sure is viral. (The Washington Post)


Where and who did you hear about the Momo Challenge from? What do you think about social media challenges? How do you think adults can talk to children and adolescents about sensitive material online without giving them false information?

Mental Health Access and Awareness in Schools

March 6, 2019 in Educate Yourself

In an article featured in a blog post from a few weeks ago, Corey Hirsch says, “If I had a magic wand, my biggest wish would be that, a year from now, there would be mental health awareness classes in schools […] across North America. Every single kid should be equipped with a basic knowledge about anxiety, depression, OCD and other mental health issues. To treat these things like they don’t exist is unacceptable.”

ava-dickson-1198125-unsplashThe US public education system doesn’t currently address student mental health in a comprehensive way. Texas and 19 other states don’t require school counselors and only about a dozen states require annual courses on suicide prevention training. According to the 2015-16 School Survey on Crime and Safety, 71% of public schools reported having diagnostic assessments for mental health disorders available for students while 64% reported having treatment available. When asked about what is preventing the schools from providing mental health services to students, 75% of respondents cited inadequate funding as the main problem.

renan-kamikoga-709781-unsplashHowever, there are some states who are starting to incorporate mental health programs into their school districts. Recently, New York passed a law requiring mental health instruction from kindergarten to 12th grade. Virginia also passed a law requiring mental health instruction for 9th through 12th graders. In Stamford, Connecticut, the school district re-evaluated their mental health program after three students took their own lives within a year. After some research, they introduced four evidence-based services for students, district-wide trauma and behavioral health training and supports for staff and integrated community and state resources and services for students. The goal was to create a self-sustaining, in-house program that takes a proactive approach to mental health.

Research even suggests positive mental health interventions in schools are linked to behaviors related to academic achievement. A 2014 study by the Center for Health and Healthcare in Schools found that adolescents who had positive behavioral health interventions showed an increase in task-learning behavior, better time management, strengthened goal setting and problem-solving skills and decreased rates of absenteeism and suspensions. homework-1735644_1920

While there is still a long way to go in terms of getting mental health programs in all school districts nationwide, organizations such as NAMI have resources to help support this goal. NAMI is a supporter of the Mental Health in Schools Act (H.R. 1211/S. 1588) which urges states to pass legislature requiring school faculty and staff training in early warning signs of mental illness, links community mental health services to schools and provides funding and support for training. Through the development of free programs such as NAMI Ending the Silence presentation and NAMI Parents and Teachers as Allies program, they are helping educate adolescents, parents and faculty on the warning signs, facts, statistics and ways to get help for themselves and their friends.


How does your high school and/or college approach mental health? Were there counselors available, or was it ever discussed in classes? Were there ever lessons taught about it?

Spring is in the Air…Eventually

March 4, 2019 in Be Positive

Winter can feel like it drags on forever, especially when it’s not your favorite time of year. The season is known for not only being not-so-popular, but one that’s harder on mental health given the cold, early sunsets, and barren nature.

johny-goerend-415946-unsplashThis time of year can be even more confusing, since it can feel like the weather can’t seem to make up its mind. It can be really warm and rainy one day, but then super bright yet really cold the next. If you like one type of weather more than the other, the back-and-forth can affect your mood.

This back-and-forth and the unpredictable weather can get frustrating. It can confuse your closet, the temperature of your classrooms and work, and your body if you have seasonal allergies. It may even affect and confuse your mental health. You may feel excited, for example, when you see that you only have to wear a light jacket and optimistic that springtime is finally here, but a snowstorm the next day might bring you down.

biegun-wschodni-18125-unsplashEven though there may be all kinds of whiplashes going on, the weather is just one way of reminding us that life isn’t always consistent. Highs and lows in how we feel are just as natural as the change in weather, and though the lows may seem like they’re going on forever or you’re stuck with them for good, there will always be peeks of the good to remind you that it isn’t permanent and changes are coming soon. The sun will shine longer, the world will look a little more colorful, and things will start to feel a little warmer.

Spring doesn’t officially start until March 20th, and the clocks don’t jump ahead another hour until the 10th, but the first signs are starting to appear. It may just be a tease, and it may feel temporary, but it’s a reminder that change is still on its way, and with that, a refresh.


How do you feel about spring? How do you feel when the weather goes back-and-forth? Does it affect your mood?

An App to Consider: Oak

March 1, 2019 in LINKS

We talked about the benefits to deep breathing and how it can clear your mind earlier this week on Monday. Although the steps are incredibly simple (deep breath in, hold, breathe out, repeat), you can try different patterns and lengths of time, and may need some assistance with it. You may also want a source of some background noise instead of searching “calming sounds” online and hoping for the best.

Oak is just one of many apps available on your phone that you can download in order to get introduced to and practice meditating and deep breathing. The interface is simple: everything is listed on two pages and doesn’t require much scrolling.

The first page divides the types of meditating into three sessions: Meditate, Breathe, and Sleep. Although they’re self-explanatory, each comes with a little description, and choosing one of the 2-3 activities under each one will explain what that one helps with in more detail. For example, one of the Breathe activities has one that’s there to help you wake up, while one of the Sleep ones has a series of exercises over a longer period of time to help lull you to bed.

The time of each activity ranges and you can set how long you want them to be. The Meditate and Sleep ones are a little bit longer and let you choose the gender of the voice guiding you, and the Breathe exercises are a little bit shorter. The Meditate and Sleep ones also give you the choice of what background noises you want (if any), which includes different levels of rain, white noise, and a fireplace.

The second page tracks your progress. If sticking to a schedule or maintaining a routine can be overwhelming or stressful for you, you can easily ignore this part. However, you can look here to see your streaks and how many days in a row you’ve meditated, the longest streak you’ve had (if you want a record to beat), and how many minutes and sessions you’ve done that day and total. You can also see in real time how many others are using the app and have used it that day, which can help normalize the activity and make you feel a little less alone.

The app is free and doesn’t require an account. Unfortunately, it’s only available on the App Store, so if you have an iPhone, you can download it here.


Have you tried deep breathing or meditation? Would you use an app to help guide you? What other recommendations do you have?

Using Social Media at Night

February 28, 2019 in Social Media Guide

It may be hard for some to remember the last time that they got a proper, full night’s sleep. Schoolwork, jobs, and extracurricular activities are just a few things that can contribute to an adolescent’s hectic and busy schedule. Simply put, there aren’t enough hours in the day for people to do everything that they want, and they often sacrifice the time they should be using sleeping to get everything else done.

charles-351207-unsplashReports have shown that adolescents today are not getting enough sleep as they should be getting, which should be at least eight hours. It’s well known by know that there are many health risks associated with poor sleep, and irregular sleep patterns are also classified as symptoms for mental illnesses such as depression.

A common solution that experts recommend doing to change sleeping behaviors is to at least reduce, if not completely cut out technology as you start to get ready for bed. This often means  not using your computer in bed, physically keeping your phone away from you, and not exposing yourself to any screens.

However, it’s not uncommon to wake up in the middle of the night for no apparent reason. This is known as “nocturnal awakenings.” Depending on what stage of the sleep cycle that you disrupt when you wake up, it can be simple minutes to long, grueling hours before you fall back asleep. The causes for nocturnal awakenings can vary, but stress is cited as a major factor.StockSnap_QGU10TMNPE

But what do people do when nocturnal awakenings happen? Realistically, most people, especially adolescents, don’t make an effort to keep their technology away from their bed. 1 in 5 adolescents routinely use their phone after waking up in the middle of the night, specifically to use social media. In the UK, nearly all of the adolescents who said they use their phone when they should be sleeping are on social media.

One big reason? Adolescents feel that they may have missed out on something if they don’t check their phone. Notifications are also a reason that about 30 percent of adolescents wake up inbackground-3644028_1280 the middle of the night. And even if it’s not the reason that they wake up, just seeing that they got a notification can keep adolescents up longer. Notifications and social media engagement influence the “reward system in our brains, and in adolescents, the pleasure and pain associated with rewards are even stronger. Seeing a notification can make us excited, because we don’t know what it’s going to be about, and going through them all to see which one is “good” makes us respond and use our phones longer.

Unfortunately, it’s easier said than done for people to stop using their phones before they go to bed. But when harmful sleeping patterns among adolescents continue to be a problem, making a cycle out of having trouble sleeping, staying asleep during the night, and taking too-long naps can have potentially long-term effects.


Do you keep your phone near you when you sleep? Do you find yourself waking up in the middle of the night and immediately go to check it? How do you think adolescents can realistically change these habits?

What is YST?

February 26, 2019 in Educate Yourself

soren-astrup-jorgensen-206084-unsplashOne of the best ways to deal with mental health issues is to talk about them. Starting a conversation can be hard, but being able to talk about your feelings can help you to understand and work through them. Additionally, once you’ve shared your feelings with someone else, you potentially have someone you can rely on for social support. Research suggests that this social support is important: a recent study found that the Youth-Nominated Support Team Intervention for Suicidal Adolescents – Version II (YST) might be associated with reduced mortality.

YST is a psychoeducational, social support intervention specifically for adolescents with suicidal ideation or attempts after psychiatric hospitalization. Adolescents are asked to nominate a couple of adults in their lives who they consider to be caring and will support them. A YST specialist then meets with the nominated adults to teach them about the adolescent’s psychopathology, treatment plans, and ways they can support the adolescent. The caring adult has their regular contact with the adolescent, with the YST specialist’s support, over the course of the next 3 months. The goal of the intervention is to provide the adolescent with social support during their recovery process.

eye-for-ebony-415494-unsplashIn a study conducted on 448 adolescents between the ages of 13-17, participants were divided into two groups: those who received treatment as usual (TAU) and those who received TAU + YST. They found that adolescents in the YST group were more likely to participate in some type of outpatient alcohol or drug treatment, attended more outpatient psychotherapy groups sessions, and medication follow-up sessions. In the 10 years after the study was conducted, one adolescent in the YST group and three in the TAU group committed suicide. This suggests that YST might be associated with positive youth trajectories and reduced mortality. It is important to note that while there is an association between YST and positive youth trajectories and reduced mortality, more research is needed to be able to make causal claims.

While this study still needs more follow-up, research indicating that interventions are having a positive effect on suicidal adolescents is extremely encouraging. Since 2000, suicide rates among have increased by 28%, which also includes higher rates in adolescents. Knowing that research is getting a couple steps closer to finding an intervention that helps suicidal adolescents go through their daily lives after hospitalization creates hope for future.


What do you think about YST? Have you ever tried something similar? Do you confide in a caring adult in your life?

Taking a Deep Breath

February 25, 2019 in Be Positive

Tips, advice, and articles talking about the benefits of mindfulness and well-being are everywhere. Blogs and websites (including this one!) have a lot to offer about the ways in which we can find ways to give our minds a break and mentally restore ourselves.

maxime-caron-264222-unsplashWhat’s usually included in all of these? Items such as meditation, deep breathing, and taking time out of your day to relax. Sometimes, it can be difficult to find the time to do so. The mornings can be hard if you’re already rushing to get out of the house (and waking up even earlier can be difficult!), you may be too exhausted in the evenings and just want to go straight to bed, or you may have so much to do that ironically, even taking a couple of minutes out to breathe can cause anxiety because it may put you behind schedule.

A couple of minutes may be all you need though. It can be overwhelming to consider doing at first, since there’s only so much time in the day, and it can also feel awkward, because it’s not something that we often do, but even just a few deep, controlled breaths can have a significant impact on our bodies.

kuo-chiao-lin-260614-unsplashThe activity of deep breathing has been proven to have a lot of positive effects. It can restore pH balance and change blood pressure, and even have an influence on asthma and the risks of heart failure. Deep breathing also allows for full oxygen exchange (allowing more oxygen to come into the body and more carbon dioxide to leave). This allows the heartbeat to slow down, which can have a powerful influence on stress levels.

These techniques to reduce stress has been proven to affect students when taught in the classroom, reporting that they experienced less test anxiety, self doubt, and found that they were able to concentrate more. Making sure that you’re only concentrating on focusing on things like victor-garcia-1057436-unsplashhow many breaths you take and for how long help clear the mind, so that by the time that you’re done, you’re not overwhelmed by your tasks and instead have a space where you can organize them in an easier way.

Meditating and deep breathing can be so much simpler than what people first think of. Yoga, aromatherapy, and taking long baths are great ways of practicing mindfulness, but so is just sitting in your chair, closing your eyes, and taking a few long, deep breaths.


Do you, or have you ever tried deep breathing exercises? When do you think would be the best time to practice them?

Mental Health Resources for Black Youth

February 22, 2019 in LINKS

It can be difficult to find resources for mental health resources that feel like they’re targeted to you. This is particularly true for minorities and underprivileged groups. Racial and ethnic minorities have less access to mental health resources and services than white people, and when they do get access, it can be of poorer quality, feeling that the treatment they receive doesn’t fully suit them or that they feel like they’re experiencing discrimination.

angelo-moleele-725358-unsplashAfrican-American communities are no exception. As we mentioned on Wednesday, African-American adolescents require different approaches when developing treatment, because they express their depressive symptoms differently, for a number of reasons.

The options below are just a start to what may be available online for African-Americans and African-American youth. A couple are sites dedicated to one gender, one is an app, and another is a podcast, but all of them have been created and are run by African-Americans, with the hope that seeing something created for you by someone who looks like you can have a more significant impact.

The Safe Place This is an app dedicated just for African-Americans and how they can learn more and think about their mental health. The creator, Jasmine Pierre, is a certified peer support specialist, and has the app offer a forum, statistics specifically about black mental health, and inspirational quotes. There are also self-care tips for things such as coping with police brutality, how to talk to black family members about mental health, and mental health in the black church.

sound-2170379_1280Fireflies Unite T-Kea – the woman named in the podcast’s full title of Fireflies Unite Podcast with Kea – releases episodes every Monday where she allows individuals to share their stories about mental health and the stigmas they face, especially as people of color. She is a mental health advocate dedicated to showing that mental illness can affect anyone, and is a suicide survivor.

instagram-3814083_1280Therapy for Black Men The main focus of this website (run by mental health professional Vladimire Calixte) is to provide a directory for African-American men to access therapists who they can trust with offering services that will be beneficial to them. The search gives you the option to get more advanced beyond searching just by location, including therapists’ specialties, treatment options, and if they provide therapy remotely. The site also has a coach directory and a blog.

Therapy for Black Girls Dr. Joy Harden Bradford is a licensed psychologist who created this site specifically for African-American women and girls to have a resource to learn more about well-being and mental health. Like Therapy for Black Men, there’s a directory listing therapists nationwide who provide “high quality, culturally competent services” for African-American women and girls, letting you search by location and by insurance. The website also has its own weekly podcast hosted by Dr. Joy, where she talks and educates listeners about an array of mental health topics.


Do you have any recommendations? If you’re a minority, do you look for resources that are more specifically tailored for you?

Social Media as an Archive

February 21, 2019 in Social Media Guide

Social media has been around for a really long time. You may have forgotten just how many accounts you have and on what kinds of websites you used to go on. Even sites like Webkinz and random forums technically count as social media, because you interacted with others online. The Facebook account you used to use once upon a time is still there, even if it’s collecting dust, with all the old posts and photos you’ve forgotten that you posted.

tony-lam-hoang-156669-unsplashIf you’re lucky (or unlucky) enough to remember your passwords to these accounts, you can login and go down a trip to memory lane. It doesn’t have to be limited to your old accounts either; Timehop will share old posts for you on sites like Facebook, while Twitter allows you to download your entire archive. If you’re patient, you can also scroll down your Instagram and Twitter profiles, or through your memories on Snapchat, and see things that you’ve posted from as recently as yesterday to even years ago.

There may be some benefits to having access to these old accounts. Some argue that nostalgia – and its social media counterparts through #TBTs, Timehop, and the downloadable archives – can be beneficial to mental health. Connecting and seeing older memories can help maintain your sense of identity and remind you that important parts of your personality have stayed the same over time, and can also spark optimism and inspiration about the future.

On the other hand, some experts say that nostalgia can be a rabbit hole that’s not worth going down into. If you were going through a particularly bad time, you may have posted about it, and rereading that can spark those negative emotions again. You can also be proud of the progress you’ve made since that time, or you may feel bad for how you felt back then, feeling a sense of loss.

con-karampelas-1178814-unsplashOne person shared her experience with social media nostalgia. She shared her journey when she downloaded the archive for her 13-year-old Facebook account. It told her how many times she deactivated his profile, showed her old videos that she had deleted before uploading them, and the order that her friends were added. Despite the sadness she felt and how it all this information was only really useful for Facebook and advertisers, she also felt more human through the activity through the catching up she did.

Looking at social media archives isn’t just a personal experience however. Social media has also made it easy to openly share these memories charles-1161801-unsplashwith everyone on your network. As a result, it’s really easy to feel like you experienced FOMO just by looking at posts of events that you never even knew about until that moment. Posting old memories is also a conscious choice, because while memories maintain your identity, sharing that with others can also be a way to tell your network that you’ve always been a certain way and you’re sticking to your brand. For example, if you post a lot about fashion, uploading an old photo of you as a child playing with your mom’s makeup tells people that you’ve always been into beauty and it therefore makes you look more legitimate and that’s how you want to come across.

Overall, nostalgia can have its positives (that’s why Happiness Jars are a great way to foster positivity), but it be a tricky topic to tackle, especially when doing so on social media. You can always share a #TBT or an old, possibly embarrassing post, whenever you feel like it, but getting trapped in the past can make it harder to grow for the future.


How do you feel about nostalgic posts online? Have you ever looked at your old posts on your profiles? If so, how did they make you feel? How do you feel when you see others’ old posts?

Black Adolescents and Stereotype Threat

February 20, 2019 in Educate Yourself

Mental health and the risks for mental illness affect everyone differently, and this is just as true when it comes to demographics. Everyone has their own experiences and own stories when it comes to how mental health impacts them directly, but your identity can also play a role in how you’re affected.

banter-snaps-12845-unsplashWe’ve talked before about how mental health affects and is perceived in the African-American community. There has also been an increased focus on how mental illness affects African-Americans differently and more severely and how it needs to be treated appropriately as such: the suicide rate in African-American children is significantly higher than white children, for example, and African-American adolescents express their depressive symptoms differently, which requires different approaches when developing treatment.

One of the contributors to African-American mental health, especially in adolescents, is stereotype threat. Stereotype threat is a theory developed by psychologist Claude Steele, and says that minority groups (women and African Americans specifically) being told or made aware of the negative stereotypes associated with them can cause self-doubt and affect their abilities in the related field.

This includes school and academic performance. For example, if an African-American adolescent is told that an exam will measure their intellectual ability, they are likely to do more poorly than if they’re told that the test has no impact. By telling them that it will measure their intellectual ability, they may start thinking about stereotypes such as being less intelligent than white santi-vedri-707620-unsplashpeople, and they may think that they will inevitably make that stereotype to be true. Researchers have looked into how stereotype threat can be a factor in the achievement gap between African-American and white students too.

Once the stereotype threat is present, it can affect academic performance regardless of the individual’s personal ability or skill in that subject. Simply being made aware of the negative stereotypes associated with them makes people feel that they are going to end up like that no matter what, and that disrupts their thinking and how they view themselves, no matter how aware they are of it or not.

Stereotype threat not only negatively affects how people see themselves, but it can also increase symptoms of mental illness. Stereotyping is a way to discriminate others, and those who feel like they’re being discriminated against are more likely to exhibit depressive symptoms. Anxiety can also increase, because of the person feeling like they are inevitably going to meet these negative stereotypes and have to be a certain way. Anxiety can not only negatively impact academic performance as a result, but African-American students may also experience anxiety and depressive symptoms because of low scores and the effects that result from them.

There have been some efforts to help reduce stereotype threat. One of them is the opposite of stereotype threat: stereotype boost. By exposing people to the positive stereotypes associatedhannah-grace-385877-unsplash with them, their performance will improve. One way of doing that is through the media, especially those centered to kids and youths, so that they can be exposed to more positive representation. Ultimately, what’s important to remember is that stereotypes and how people see others who aren’t like them can make a big impact on those who are being discriminated or judged, which can have a further effect not just on the things that may be important on them, but on their mental health too.


How do you think teachers, students, and others in the school can help combat stereotype threat? Have you ever experienced stereotype threat?