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Balancing Work and Mental Health

August 14, 2024 in Educate Yourself

A major part of adolescence and young adulthood is finding and keeping a job. When struggling with anxiety or depression, this can create obstacles to being successful in your work. Many questions can arise: What is needed to support your mental health? Should you tell your employer? If so, how much should I disclose?

To start, it is important that you know your rights! Psychological disabilities are covered under the Americans With Disabilities Act. Requests for accommodations can usually be made to the company’s Human Resources department.

Consider your work environment before disclosing mental health concerns. Unfortunately, stigma exists in work environments. It is important to protect yourself from any harm that might be caused by speaking on your mental health concerns. If it turns out you think more harm than good would come of talking about your mental health, it might be best to find another place to work that is more respectful of mental health. Lastly, the article recommends some flexibility. It’s important to find that balance between meeting the needs of the job without sacrificing your wellbeing. This might require some discussion between you and your employer, so it’s important to be flexible and find a compromise that fits the needs on both sides.

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Do you have any experience with juggling a mental health concern and work? We’d love to hear any tips you have in the comments below!

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Five reasons why feeling depressed discourages you from finding help.

August 13, 2024 in Educate Yourself

It is hard saying that its time to get help for how you feel for a lot of different reasons. One of the most common reasons is because the actual symptoms of depression can make it tough to want to get help.

  1. Guilt — Depression can make you feel like everything that goes wrong is your fault.  You also feel bad for all kinds of different things. Some young people feel bad that they would have to get treatment for depression, too. They think only if they could take care of their problems on their own, they wouldn’t have to ask for help or trouble their parents to take them to the doctor or therapist. The fact is that depression is not your fault – just like any other illness or disease is not your fault either. 
  2. Not feeling motivated — Part of depression is not feeling up to doing much of anything. You would rather stay in bed or in the house than face the world. Going to see a therapist or a doctor about an emotional problem is tough for anyone, but especially if you don’t feel like even doing things you used to think were fun. It can help to have a friend or family member go with you and try to help you get to your appointments so you can get better.
  1. Having a hard time concentrating — Even if you do get to a therapist, participating in therapy appointments can be a lot of work. You need to really think about how you think and how you have dealt with different experiences in the past so you can learn from them. When you are depressed, you can have a hard time focusing and concentrating on things. Your brain can feel worn out and like mush – that can make participating in therapy hard. Be open with your therapist. If you feel like you can’t focus, they can change or slow down their strategy – or talk to your doctor about whether adding medications would help.
  2. Lack of energy — Being depressed can be a draining process. You  might feel like you would rather be sleeping or just like you have no energy to do anything. Even if you were motivated, you’d have no energy to get yourself to actually do anything. This is another reason having a support person can be really helpful.
  3. Sleep disturbances — Not being able to sleep well can really take a toll on anyone, but especially if you are already experiencing other symptoms of depression. Talk to your doctor or therapist about the problems you have with sleeping. Keep a sleep diary to help you let them know exactly what is going on. Everyone is different, but usually there are different strategies that can help. Getting good sleep can make a world of difference in how you feel. Here are some strategies which may help you.
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Do You Use Social Media Less When Your Skin Breaks Out?

August 12, 2024 in Social Media Guide

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Do you ever get nervous about posting photos of yourself on social media when you’re in the middle of a breakout?

According to a recent survey of more than 1,000 adolescents, more than half reported that social media makes having acne harder, and about one-third reported that social media increased their anxiety about their breakouts.

Here are some more statistics about the ways these adolescents changed their social-media behavior when their skin didn’t look as great as they wished:

More than two-thirds of the adolescents said that they believe most of their peers edit or somehow change photos of themselves to hide imperfections in their skin.

Eighty-six percent of the adolescents said they have had acne, and among those who said they have acne, 71 percent said it negatively affected their body image and attractiveness and 67 percent said it decreased their self-esteem.

And half of all the adolescents said they did at least one of the following things to avoid people seeing the imperfections in their skin:

  • Choosing not to include a photo of themselves with acne
  • Deleting or untagging a photo of themselves with pimples
  • Asking someone to remove a picture of them with acne
  • Staying off social media to avoid posting and seeing pictures of themselves

Wow—that’s a lot of pressure!

Perfectionism is rampant in our culture, and social media can increase the pressure to look perfect.

Has social media made it harder for you to accept yourself as you are, with all the challenges that come along with being an adolescent? What has it done to your anxiety levels? What are your strategies for helping yourself accept yourself when you don’t look as awesome as you wish you did? Share with us in the comments.

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Do You Feel Handcuffed To Your Phone?

August 9, 2024 in Educate Yourself

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Do you ever feel too attached to your phone? We all get upset when our phones fall into puddles, or when we have to put our phones away during class.

But some people feel super intense discomfort when they get separated from their phones. Researchers have named this state of mind “nomophobia.” Its important to note that this is not a medical diagnosis right now, but a term some researchers are using to describe a trend.

It stands for “no mobile phobia.” People who experience nomophobia feel like their phone is like an extension of their body, so taking it away makes them feel as though someone just walked away with their hand! They feel addicted to their phones.

One recent study found that “dependent personalities”—people who have an excessive need for affirmation from others, and who fear separation—are the most likely to feel distressed when they’re not allowed to use their phones. Also, women showed significantly stronger feelings of attachment than men did.

The good news from this study is that there is one discipline that may ease these feelings—mindfulness!

(Is there any mental health condition that mindfulness does not help?!)

There are many ways to improve one’s mindfulness. In this study, participants practiced meditation. In general mindfulness helps people who struggle with unhealthy attachments, whether it’s to their phone, a loved one, a substance, an outcome of a situation, and so on. Plus, mindfulness can help us in many ways, not just with attachment! Practicing mindfulness can decrease stress, increase focus, and improve memory!

Psychology Today recommends some other strategies to help with nomophobia:

  • Set aside times each day to turn off your cell phone and experience either face-to-face conversations or solitude.
  • Balance screen time and in-person time each week. For every hour you invest in front of a screen, invest one in human contact.
  • Try a technology fast every month, where you actually go for a day or more without a computer, tablet or phone. You’ll feel liberated.
  • Human beings didn’t always sleep with phones on their nightstands or even under their pillows. Place your phone at least 15 feet away from you when you sleep at night. You’ll have to get up to push “snooze” on your alarm clock, but this way you’re less attached while you sleep.
  • Create zones in your days when you spend time using technology, and other blocks of time for organic, genuine interaction with people.

What do you think about nomophobia? How many minutes (or seconds) pass between the time you wake up and the time you check your phone? Have you ever tried to practice mindfulness yourself? Share your experiences in the comments.

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100 Happy Days

August 8, 2024 in Be Positive

Have you heard of 100 happy days?

The idea is to take a picture every day of something that makes you happy.

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What’s the point? 

When you try to find something each day that makes you happy, it helps you focus on the positive that day, instead of being stuck in the negative.

Also when you look back at happy pictures, it helps you “savor” the moment and increase positive feelings!

If you feel okay doing it, share it on social media or even with a small group of friends or family who you know will support you in it.

Let us know below if you tried it and how it went! Or if you plan on trying it!

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I think I can — I think I can — I think I can

August 7, 2024 in Be Positive

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Positive self-talk can be an effective tool in boosting your mood.  You can also reduce stress by eliminating negative self-talk.  Learn more about the power of positive self-talk and stress management.  Start being kind and gentle to yourself by trying one of these mantras:

  • I am capable.
  • I know who I am and I am enough.
  • I choose to be present in all that I do.
  • I choose to think thoughts that serve me well.
  • I choose to reach for a better feeling.
  • I share my happiness with those around me.
  • My body is my vehicle in life; I choose to fill it with goodness.
  • I feel energetic and alive.
  • My life is unfolding beautifully.
  • I am confident.
  • I always observe before reacting.
  • I know with time and effort I can achieve.
  • I love challenges and what I learn from overcoming them.
  • Each step is taking me to where I want to be.

Do you practice positive self-talk? If so, how?  Do you ever recognize yourself thinking negative self-talk?  Did any of those mantras help?

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Happiness Set Point

August 6, 2024 in Be Positive

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There is an idea in psychology that we all have something called a happiness set point. A happiness set point is a term used to describe our general level of happiness, and it is unique to each of us. We all have different set points, and it is possible that some people, who seem to be happier than others, have naturally higher happiness set points.

Where does our happiness set point come from? 

Your happiness set point partly comes from your genes. It also comes from our upbringing and personality traits that we develop when we are young and stay with us throughout our lives.

Does our set point change?   

Yes, but only temporarily. In general, our happiness set point has the ability to increase around positive (such as winning the lottery) and negative (you do not perform well on an exam) events. However, eventually our happiness will return to our natural set point (with the exception of a few life events). In fact, research has shown that “lottery winners and those who have undergone extreme hardship due to a health crisis or accident, within a year or so to return to the level of happiness they had prior to their life change.” Basically if something good happens, your sense of happiness rises; if something bad happens; it falls. However, eventually it all returns back to baseline.

Can I do anything about my happiness set point?

Yes! There is a way to choose to become a happier person. Huffington Post put out nine suggestions for taking control over your own happiness:

  1. Simply try.
  2. Make happiness your number-one goal.
  3. Linger on those little, positive moments.
  4. Choose mindfulness.
  5. Smile your way to happiness.
  6. Practice gratitude.
  7. Pursue happiness, find happiness – and success.
  8. Let yourself be happy.
  9. Practice compassion.

However, these are just suggestions. There are lots of other ways things you can try to raise the set point of your happiness.

What are other ways you might be able to raise your happiness set point? Try these out for a while and let us know if you notice any results!

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How Our Genes Are Not Set In Stone

August 5, 2024 in LINKS

One of the most interesting areas of mental health research is “epigenetics”—the study of changes in organisms caused by modification of gene expression rather than changing the genetic code itself. In plain language, that means that we can inherit a predisposition to conditions like depression and anxiety—but there are also things we can do to change how our genes make themselves felt in our daily lives.

As Rachel Yehuda, Ph.D., says:

We’re just starting to understand that just because you’re born with a certain set of genes, you’re not in a biologic prison as a result of those genes.

Changes can be made in our behaviors that then change the way the genes function. Our genes are not set in stone.

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Yehuda is professor of psychiatry and neuroscience at the Mount Sinai School of Medicine. She talks about epigenetics and the kinds of changes we can make to our genetic expression in this episode of a super-helpful podcast called “On Being.”

Sometimes those changes, for example, have to do with diet—like if you inherit a predisposition toward cancer, you don’t inherit actual tumors, but you inherit a greater possibility that if you eat a diet high in animal fat and low in healthy carbohydrates, you may increase your chances of your genes turning on the “switch” for cancer.

And sometimes those changes have to do with behaviors.

If you inherit the predisposition toward depression, and you respond to stress by locking yourself in your room, refusing to talk to anyone, and comparing yourself to peers on social media, then you may run the risk of turning on those switches that can lead your genes “express” the tendency toward depression.

But it works the other way, too! The more you learn to respond to stress with behaviors such as visiting a therapist, engaging in yoga or meditation, or talking with a friend, the more you can increase your chances of turning that switch off—or keeping it turned off.

Yehuda says that her research is showing that “some epigenetic changes occur in response to psychotherapy.”

If we’re saying that environmental circumstances can create one kind of change, a different environmental circumstance creates another kind of change. That’s very empowering.

Check out On Being on Facebook and Twitter for positive messages throughout your day!

Have you ever worried that your genes would “lock you in a prison”? Have you actually seen your coping strategies reduce your symptoms of anxiety and depression? What practices empower you? Tell us!

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Are you bored?

August 2, 2024 in LINKS

Maybe you need to try something new?

Dosomething.org is a great website to show the world what you really care about.

It is a website where young people 13 to 25 can get involved in different activities for social change. Things like improving the environment or decreasing bullying. There are a lot of different activities even if you only have a little time. Better yet, there are plenty of chances to win scholarships.

Check it out and let us know what you thought below!

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Finding the Right Healthcare Professional

August 1, 2024 in Educate Yourself

In a future article will post an article that looks into more detailed differences between various healthcare professionals, titled “What do all of these letters mean?” This article is a spin off from that one by providing some tips on how to decide who the best healthcare professional for you might be and how to find one nearby.

How do I find the right healthcare professional for me?

This is a tricky question that can have a lot of correct answers. Remember that you are an expert in your needs so listening to your intuition and asking yourself real questions is a great place to start. The steps below are guidelines for navigating the system and may not be the best fit for everyone.

  • Do you have a primary care physician you see (like when you’re sick or want to get the flu vaccine, etc..)?
  • Talking to your primary care physician is always a good first option. They are very familiar with mental and behavioral health needs and are a good place to start when deciding what might suit your situation. Make an appointment and keep a list of things to discuss with your doctor. For example:
    • Explain how you’ve been feeling, any changes in your emotions or behaviors, and any issues or concerns you have
    • Tell them about your family history (for example if your mother experienced depression or your uncle was diagnosed with bipolar disorder)
    • Ask them if medications, therapy, or both could be appropriate for you
    • Ask them for referrals to behavioral healthcare professionals they like and trust

Good Rules of Thumb:

  • Licensed professional counselors and social workers often have a wide variety of skills. Seeking the guidance of these professionals first may be best if your situation involves some environmental and social factors. For example, you get really stressed out and anxious at home because the house is very crowded and listening to your mom and grandma fight makes you feel nervous.
  • Psychologists and Psychiatrists typically work with individuals who need longer term services, have more complex health needs, and require medication management. For example, you experience depression and have been previously diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and are currently taking two different medications.

Finding a healthcare professional:

First find out if and what kind of health insurance you have. If you have health insurance you’ll most likely want to ensure you find a provider in your insurance network (which just means they accept your health insurance). You can find different providers by calling the number on your health insurance card. Behavioral healthcare professionals often have a different number and are noted on the back of your insurance card (see below).

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If you are looking for a medical provider, or want to start there but don’t know how to find one, you can look at your insurance card for that information too! The front or back of your card often display a number and a website you can use (see below):

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Whether you are looking for a physician or another provider always ask your insurance company what the cost to you will be! Sometimes you are required to pay a fee every time you see this person, that’s called a copay. Sometimes you are required to pay a portion of the bill for that visit, which is typically called a coinsurance payment.

What if you don’t have health insurance?

If you don’t have health insurance it may be best to examine some of the resources available in your area. For example, is there a counselor or nurse that you can talk to at school? Are there any academic institutions (like a nearby university) that has training programs for their students? You may be able to receive services from students in training who are supervised by a number of professionals! Another option is to call local community health centers or non-profit organizations and see if they have any free or low cost services. Search the internet for community health centers in your area! When you call, try to give them as much detail about your situation as possible so they can best answer your questions. For example, ‘Hi my name is X and I am 17 years old. I am looking to talk to someone about anxious feelings I’ve been experiencing but I do not have health insurance. Are there any low cost or free services at your health center? If so, how much will it cost me and what qualifications does the provider have?”

Links to search for health professionals by trade:

Do you have experience looking for a healthcare professional? What are some helpful tips you can share for other users? Did this article provide you with useful information? Let us know in the comments!